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I would never bash sex in the bedroom. It works. It is sometimes the only place with some privacy. And it’s comfortable. It’s the one room in the house where sex is most likely to happen. But there’s nothing wrong with trying out a few of the other rooms and spaces. Being adventurous will add spice to your sex life. Here are a few options to explore:
In the shower or bath
We all have to get clean, so why not make it exciting by doing it together? Wash each other first while touching and kissing to heighten the mood. Height compatibility can be an issue during penetration. In the shower, a version of doggy style will be most suitable. If you have walls around your shower, he can pick you up during intercourse. Oral sex can also be a lot more pleasurable because you have cleaned each other beforehand, leaving you fresh.
On the couch
This may be a challenge for those with children. Drop them off at minders and, when you have the house to yourselves, play in the lounge. Yes, there’s missionary, but he could bend you over the edge of the couch and enter you from behind. Or, you can get on top and let him know you’re in charge.
On the floor
No squeaky bedsprings. The possibilities are endless. Avoid carpet burn by laying down a blanket.
The kitchen
The kitchen and its adjoining rooms can be exciting – whether it’s on the kitchen counter, the dining room table or the kitchen floor. Many of us fantasise about being taken on the kitchen counter before being able to make it to the bedroom. Be open to exploring new ideas. You may be surprised by what you cook up.
In the swimming pool
This is my favourite. It’s outside in the open, but still in the privacy of your home. If the idea of being caught excites you, this one is for you.
In the car
Snuggle up on the back seat and steam up the windows. For those of you who are more risqué, parking the car in a secluded area is an option. Her on top facing the front while he sits on the back seat is a comfortable and enjoyable position.
Depending on how daring you are during lovemaking, the list of places to have fun with your partner is almost endless. Be creative, but be sure you don’t get caught.
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