Gay celebrities find worth in coming out

2012-07-06 22:09
Washington - Suddenly, it seems, more US entertainers are coming out publicly as gay, lesbian or bisexual - a welcome sign of a more accepting America, activists say, amid a fierce debate over marriage equality.

Hip-hop artist Frank Ocean, 24, a member of the Odd Future collective, and talk-show host and CNN anchor Anderson Cooper both made headlines this week when they openly acknowledged their sexual orientations.

"4 summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19. He was too," wrote Ocean in a stream-of-consciousness entry on his Tumblr blog, ahead of the 17 July release of his new album Channel Orange and a national concert tour.

"We spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Everyday almost. And on the days we were together, time would glide... I don't have any secrets I need to keep anymore... I feel like a free man."

Jim Parsons

Cooper, one of the nation's best known TV journalists, who also hosts a syndicated talk show, confirmed his sexuality in an email exchange with fellow newsman Andrew Sullivan, who is also gay.

"The fact is, I'm gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn't be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud," wrote Cooper, the son of railway heiress and socialite Gloria Vanderbilt.

But they were hardly the first ones to come out in public.

Last month it was Jim Parsons, who plays the socially awkward Sheldon Cooper on the hit nerd sitcom The Big Bang Theory, and before that it was Zachary Quinto from American Horror Story and Matt Bomer from White Collar and Magic Mike.

Preceding them were Latino superstar Ricky Martin, Jane Lynch from Glee, who is raising two daughters with her female spouse, and American Idol winner Adam Lambert, the first openly gay singer with a No 1 Billboard hit.

Not to mention Jesse Tyler Ferguson from Modern Family, Sean Maher from Firefly, a father of two with his male partner, bisexual Amber Heard from the short-lived The Playboy Club, Cynthia Nixon from Sex and the City, who married her girlfriend in May, and Jonathan Knight from boy band New Kids on the Block.

"It's not only a trend in the entertainment industry, but in American culture today," said Rich Ferraro of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD), which monitors the images of gays in popular culture.

Barack Obama

"I think it reflects how people are becoming more accepting of gay and lesbian people overall... It's clear today that you can be 'out' in Hollywood and not hurt your career. There's not a scandal anymore."

No major-league athlete has come out as gay, and country singer Chely Wright says her record sales have fallen and her show has been banned from some venues since she became the first woman in the genre to come forward as a lesbian.

It is a sharp contrast from 15 years ago, when the coming-out of actress and talk-show host Ellen DeGeneres - married since 2008 to Australian-born thespian Portia de Rossi - prompted a tabloid frenzy.

So strong was the backlash that department store chain JC Penney stopped sponsoring her popular sitcom Ellen. Today, DeGeneres appears front-and-center in print and television ads for JC Penney.

The trend comes after Barack Obama, gunning for re-election in November, became the first US president to support marriage equality - instantly winning kudos from LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) voters.

Major organizations such as the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), the League of United Latin American Citizens and the National Council of La Raza back the legalisation of same-sex marriages.

Such unions are now legal in six states and the District of Columbia, but not recognized at the federal level, and referendums are set to be held in November in Maine, Maryland and Washington.

"It's an interesting time because a lot of things have happened in a short period of time. We're at a tipping point in many ways," Darlene Nipper, deputy executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, told AFP.

She cautioned, however, that much remains to be done, and not just on the marriage equality front: In a majority of US states today, workers have no legal protection against discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.

"The reality is, for many people who have taken that risk (to come out) or remain afraid to take that risk, there are implications that we cannot ignore," Nipper added.

"If there was a federal non-discrimination policy, you would see a further step towards people feeling (the same) level of comfort that some now feel in showing who they are."


  • zaatheist - 2012-07-07 04:19

    A welcome development. There is no difference between the current homophobes and the christian racist bigots who supported slavery 150 years ago and Apartheid more recently. Christian racists now wish to apply the same discrimination against homosexuals and other people who differ from them. The bigotry and cruelty is identical. They have created a god in their own image and assigned their prejudice to that god, creating a god that shares their prejudice and who, then, sanctions and defends the unjustified harms that bigots like them would cause to "those who are different."

      Phoenix - 2012-07-07 08:57

      Exactly. I am amazed how cruel some of the religious people on this forum are.

  • martin.gee.godfrey - 2012-07-07 11:05

    Amazing how all these men are coming out at the exact same time that Tom Cruise is getting divorced... coincidence??? hehehehe

  • tracylee.fishervanderventel - 2012-07-07 13:05

    @zaatheist. Apartheid had nothing to do with Christianity. That is a popular myth which atheists like you hang onto. The reality is that Apartheid was motivated by the selfish (and sinful) desires of white men. They then totally and completely twisted the Bible in order to justify their prejudice. Yes, quoting the Bible out of context can lead to this. This is, however, no fault of the Word of God, but rather a product of the spiritual and intellectual dishonesty of those who do this. By the way, it was a Christian, William Wilberforce, who lead the fight against slavery. It was the churches in both the USA and in South Africa which lead the fight against racism and discrimination. By the way, there were many white clergymen who did oppose Apartheid and were subsequently ostracised. Also note that the Dutch Reformed Church who did initially support apartheid was thrown out of the World Alliance of Reformed Churches, negating your blanket statement that "Apartheid was supported by Christians". In Nazi Germany, it was true Christians, like Dietrich Bonhoeffer who opposed Nazism and paid the ultimate price. Christianity has a proud history of opposing injustice and discrimination, whereas atheists sit on the side-lines and do nothing. The prominant atheist UK politician, Roy Hattersley, commends the work of the salvation Army (Christian Organization) in the work they do. Atheism has contributed nothing to this world.

      claudine.b.shiels - 2012-07-07 20:44

      Well said, Tracylee. Very little of what atheists and liberals repeat ad nauseum about Christianity has any basis in fact. They love to bang on about evil Christians and the horrors they have inflicted upon mankind, while conveniently ignoring the massive contribution made to humanity by Christians and the Christian Church; schools, universities, hospitals, charities, music, art, literature, political ideologies, liberty, equality, abolishment of slavery, apartheid, poverty, natural disasters. Another big error made by atheists and liberals is the notion that Christians are wimpish and passive and will sit back and allow our societies and communities to be overrun by their ungodly ideas, views and agendas. Think again! We are living in the last days of this age, and our Bible warns us about people like you. In fact, we are told to expect you....and here you are! So, we have not been taken by surprise. We have been given ample warning about how you will think, act and conduct your lives. It's all there..... You might denigrate and deny God's Word, but even as you are brazenly doing so, you are unwittingly taking your place in your chosen side for the Final Conflict as Scripture says. You don't even realise it.

      Phoenix - 2012-07-08 00:05

      Oh please.... *rolls eyes*

      claudine.b.shiels - 2012-07-08 10:40

      Oh, no....not the rolled eyes! I have no comeback for that weighty, persuasivel response, so I guess I will just have to rethink my whole viewpoint.

      Patrick - 2012-07-08 11:15

      jesuslovingtracylee: Ever heard of a subject called history? Suggest you take a look at the last 1500 years of christian history, before writing this bullsh*t! chritianity is one of the MOST EVIL doctrines to pollute this planet!

      claudine.b.shiels - 2012-07-08 11:52

      Patrick Buckley: Could you tell us what the doctrine of Christianity is?

      Patrick - 2012-07-08 12:26

      Sure: instill fear, hate, enforce beliefs, discriminate, subjugate, promote stupidity, resist change, perpetuate outdated mythology, irritate..... Would you like me to go on?

      claudine.b.shiels - 2012-07-08 12:37

      Yes, Patrick, I would like you to go on....and actually answer my question as to what the DOCTRINE of Christianity is. Hate, irritate, promote stupidity etc. are your own personal and biased views; what you think Christians do. Those are not doctrines of the Christian faith. You have said that Christianity is the most evil doctrine. So, I am asking you if you know what the doctrines of the Christian faith actually clearly do not. I am suggesting that you actually know what something is before you declare it to be the most evil thing on earth.

      Patrick - 2012-07-08 12:53

      Claudine, you can con yourself all you like. read the history of your religion.... actions speak louder than words!

      claudine.b.shiels - 2012-07-08 13:28

      But, you still havent told me what the doctrine of Christianity is....this evil doctrine. What is it? It is you who are deceived. You want me to take a look at the history of true Christianity? I have. This is what I see.......the massive contribution made to humanity by Christians and the Christian Church; schools, universities, hospitals, charities, music, art, literature, political ideologies, liberty, equality; abolishment of slavery, fight against apartheid, poverty, aid in natural disasters. Which is what I said in my first post.

      Patrick - 2012-07-08 13:59

      Claudine, you are boring, stupid and irritating. Cannot be bothered with people who have their heads stuck up their backsides. Like all mindless believers, your selective morality is infantile. Over and out!

      Phoenix - 2012-07-08 16:30

      Patrick agreed 100%

      claudine.b.shiels - 2012-07-08 18:02

      And you, Patrick, can't discuss or debate anything; nor explain your own statements without resorting to childish insults and slurs. With your "head up backside....bullsh*t....happy little bunnies....stupid, boring, irritating, send god a memo...." honestly, you sound like a little boy in a playground. You make large statements, "most evil doctrine," "selective morality," but you have no ability to intelligently discuss these things. It's just a load of hateful insults. I think it feels good for you to spew anger at the God you probably once believed in, as well as towards His followers. You sound like a very hurt person.

      zaatheist - 2012-07-08 19:55

      tracylee.fishervanderventel How old are you. I grew up in Pretoria in the 1950's,60's. I know hat I saw. I know what I experienced. Where were you?

  • Gill McCain - 2012-07-08 12:33

    It used to be that ones sexual, political and religious persuasion was a private matter. I do believe that we need to go back to those days because this modern day fascination with the way others, in particular celebrities, live their lives is worrisome. With regard to homosexuality it seems that the pendulum of public opinion has swung now from disgust historically to one that glorifies the very same. I do not care one jot what anyone gets up to behind their bedroom door if it hurts no one else. Just keep it to yourselves please.

      Patrick - 2012-07-08 12:50

      Please hide all you terrible homo's, Gill is in the house and we do not want to offend her at any cost! You, Claudine and Tracylee should get together and send god a memo about all your concerns for the world. Maybe god will smite all the sodomites and you can return to being happy little bunnies.

  • Gill McCain - 2012-07-08 13:49

    Patrick - you deliberately misrepresent me, and as an atheist I object to being lumped alongside the god squad you mention. My point is that being gay or not being gay should be a private matter - I am just as uninterested in the bedroom habits of straights or homosexuals, not offended, just bored. If as I suspect you may be gay, enjoy, but I don't care either way.

      Patrick - 2012-07-08 13:55

      Gill, my humble apologies. Really sorry about the dreadful insult I paid you.

      Stefanus - 2012-07-08 21:51

      Gill I agree with you. My sexuality is my business. I don't go around and make a fuss about it. And to be honest I've never experienced any discrimination.

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