A respected business man, polygamist and UThando Ne’sthembu star, Musa Mseleku opens up about his book called Life and Polygamy.
Speaking to Move! , the star with four wives and 10 children says his book is a revelation that aims to correct the misconceptions around polygamy. At a time of writing his book, he felt that those who were doing it were not doing it right. Hence this book acts as a guide on how to do it right.
The well-known reality show, Uthando Nes’thembu emanates from this book to give exposure to the polygamous lifestyle because he felt that many people are not exposed to it.
When Move! asked him of what might be the cause of misconceptions about polygamy, Musa says that most men get into polygamy for all the wrong reasons. He points out that having marital problems one may think that by getting another wife the problems will go away. “That’s not how it works,” he assures. “Honesty is a key foundation to any relationship or marriage. If one wishes to be in polygamy they must be honest from the onset,” he explains.
Musa says he has seen many abused women and children as a result of negligence from their husbands and fathers. “If you want to be a polygamist, you must be emotionally strong and financially stable. You can’t have this lifestyle if you won’t be able to maintain it,” he says.
