How to win at life - by Nandi Ngoma
Talk about Motivation!
Nandi Ngoma was thinking back to her school days on Monday when she decided to take to Instagram to share some life advice with her friends and fans about how to stay positive and get through any crisis.
So, like in those fancy motivational books we get at the bookshop, here's Nandi's advice on how to win at life in 3 easy steps:
Step 1 - Leave the past behind
God has given EVERYONE a conscious, which is the reason why in life don't dwell on anyone who may have done you wrong as it haunts them more than you.
Step 2 -Don't feel hurt
Hurt people, Hurt people. No one who is genuinely in a good space in their life will find the need to hurt others, so it's important not to inherit such negative feelings as you were not hurt to begin with. Rather offer your positivity to such people. They may never acknowledge you, but they aspire to your positivity.
Step 3 - Be like a child
Everyone was once an innocent, naive, care free, loving child. With life we go through hardships which make us toughen up,change and inherit unnecessary insecurities. Find the inner child in you and replace being naive with wisdom. But never harden your heart, it's liberating to love and give love no matter what anyone may do to you. That's how I survived high school back then and life in general. I am far from perfect, but I try my best everyday to live an honest positive life. Today could be your last day.
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