Kelly Khumalo. (Photo: Getty Images/Gallo Images)
Johannesburg - Singer Kelly Khumalo is ready to get into the dating scene again after being unlucky in love one too many times.
Speaking on Touch HD recently, the mother of two revealed how she would be doing things differently before getting into a relationship with someone.
“I’ve always gone into relationships because someone has asked me out. It has never been about, do I want to be with this person? Do I want to date this person? Do I want a relationship with this person? Do I even like this person enough to be in a relationship with them?” she told the show’s host Thami Dish.
“So it has always been about the other party as opposed to me,” she explained.
“Now I’ve learnt about that. Now it’s no longer about who wants me. It’s about who I want…I will not let you into my space unless I want to. I will not keep you unless I see something worth keeping,” she said.
When asked whether her new stance on being in a relationship would pose a threat to potential lovers and entering a relationship, Kelly admitted that it does make things difficult but a man would be able to handle that.
“I am not looking for a boy, I’m looking for a man,” an adamant Kelly said.
“A man who will understand that I am a full grown woman who knows exactly what she wants and what she represents.”